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How to speak so that people want to listen
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The
human
voice:
It's
the
instrument
we
all
play.
Yozib olish va solishtirish
It's
the
most
powerful
sound
in
the
world,
probably.
It's
the
only
one
that
can
start
a
war
or
say
"I
love
you."
And
yet
many
people
have
the
experience
that
when
they
speak,
people
don't
listen
to
them.
And
why
is
that?
How
can
we
speak
powerfully
to
make
change
in
the
world?
What
I'd
like
to
suggest,
there
are
a
number
of
habits
that
we
need
to
move
away
from.
I've
assembled
for
your
pleasure
here
seven
deadly
sins
of
speaking.
I'm
not
pretending
this
is
an
exhaustive
list,
but
these
seven,
I
think,
are
pretty
large
habits
that
we
can
all
fall
into.
First,
gossip.
Speaking
ill
of
somebody
who's
not
present.
Not
a
nice
habit,
and
we
know
perfectly
well
the
person
gossiping,
five
minutes
later,
will
be
gossiping
about
us.
Second,
judging.
We
know
people
who
are
like
this
in
conversation,
and
it's
very
hard
to
listen
to
somebody
if
you
know
that
you're
being
judged
and
found
wanting
at
the
same
time.
Third,
negativity.
You
can
fall
into
this.
My
mother,
in
the
last
years
of
her
life,
became
very
negative,
and
it's
hard
to
listen.
I
remember
one
day,
I
said
to
her,
"It's
October
1
today,"
and
she
said,
"I
know,
isn't
it
dreadful?"
It's
hard
to
listen
when
somebody's
that
negative.
And
another
form
of
negativity,
complaining.
Well,
this
is
the
national
art
of
the
U.K.
It's
our
national
sport.
We
complain
about
the
weather,
sport,
about
politics,
about
everything,
but
actually,
complaining
is
viral
misery.
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